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Editor's Note: Becoming a parent can be one of the most exhilarating and confounding experiences of our lives. When you have a baby, information and advice come at you from a million different directions. Everyone, including family, friends, "experts" and even marketers, have an idea about how you can best help your child thrive. We sat down and talked with Dr. John Medina, a developmental molecular biologist and the author of the Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving and Thriving at Work, Home, and School and Brain Rules for Baby: How to Raise a Smart and Happy Child from Zero to Five about what science actually tells us (and doesn't) about raising a smart and happy kid.

In your book you explain that intelligence is more than IQ. What are the essential ingredients of human intelligence?

We have no idea [laughing]! IQ measures a form of something, but we actually don’t know what it measures. Some researchers believe IQ might predict nothing more than your ability to do well on IQ tests.

From the book: Given the range of intellectual abilities that exist, it is probably smart to reject a one-number-fits-all notion as the final word on your baby’s brain power.

Give us the 40,000-foot view of intelligence.

Human intelligence can be divided into two categories:

1. Crystallized intelligence: This is the ability to record information, to memorize something. There are probably 20 or 30 memory gadgets in the brain that are involved in stamping things into a database. (One of those for example is declarative memory: the brain substrates of things that you can declare openly – the third president of the United States is … )
2. Fluid intelligence: This is your ability to improvise off of those things you stored in the database by your crystallized intelligence.

The brain is the world’s best, most sophisticated survival mechanism. Our memory database plus improvisation equals our ability to learn from the past and then project into the future. For example, one day you see a big snake with red stripes and it bites you. Next day you see a smaller one, maybe even a similar different snake, and you learn to stay away. This allows us a survival advantage.

Lecture Event

John Medina and William BellJohn Medina & William Bell: Fostering Young Brains

May 29, 2013 at Town Hall in Seattle
Renowned molecular biologist and bestselling author John Medina and Casey Family Programs CEO William Bell will explore the the relationship between stable families, growing brains, and a child’s ability to learn. Learn how we can ensure that all of our community’s children, including the most vulnerable kids in foster care, can overcome their educational challenges and have the stability they need to thrive.

So is IQ malleable?

IQ is a little bit like your weight, as opposed to your height … there’s enough variability in the IQ number that if you are born in a lower socio-economic strata, if you’re stressed, if your parents talk to you when you’re a baby, if they don’t, it can vary. The problem is, IQ gives you a number that is supposed to range the entire breadth of human intelligence. How can one number ever describe that? If you sit down to a beautiful multi-course dinner, can you describe it with one word?

From the book: [IQ] has been shown to vary over one’s life span, and it is surprisingly vulnerable to environmental influences. It can change if one is stressed … living in a different culture form the testing majority … is influenced by his or her family.

So is there another way of measuring intelligence?

There’s a concept called general cognition (“g”): A statistical relationship between a wide variety of cognitive gadgets in the brain. It’s a little controversial.

boy-scoutBy now you’ve likely heard the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) organization has voted to revise its national membership policies to allow openly homosexual boys to join the Boy Scouts, but the ban will remain in force for gay adults.

Last year when the BSA reaffirmed their ban on homosexuals my son chose to resign from Scouting on the grounds that it simply wasn't fair. Talking about the revised policy now he thinks it’s a step in the right direction but he still can’t understand why they continue to discriminate against adults.

In light of this split policy, one of the big questions that has emerged for our family is what happens to an openly homosexual Eagle Scout once he turns 18? After years of participating in Scouting will this young man automatically find himself banned from the organization despite having demonstrated the skills and values necessary to achieve the organization’s highest rank? What happens to “once an Eagle, always an Eagle”?

theskablins-9-piper-hanson-cropped“Northwest Folklife: It would be so much easier without all the folk,” says a friend of mine about the wonderful, mammoth, 42-year-old festival that takes over the Seattle Center every Memorial Day weekend.

“All the folk” was exactly why I reached out to Folklife veterans for tips on how to make the most of the festival with kids in tow. Motivated partly by self-interest — I plan to bring my 3.5-year-old for the first time — I wanted strategies on how to navigate the sheer volume of the festival without overwhelming either of us (too much, anyway).

Below are top family picks; as you probably know, though, it’s hard to find a non-family-friendly performance at Folklife, and kids will be as entertained by the buskers as the official performances. Make a plan, but wander, too! (Check out the whole schedule; many local libraries will also have printed  copies, which have a helpful icon for family performances.).

Top Folklife picks for kids and families

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Family hands-on activities: Throughout the weekend, Folklife hosts a kid tent on Fisher Terrace with many terrific-sounding activities, including global crafts with Sponge, a milk carton derby, mosaic art, toy boat building, and family dances (my personal favorite) on Friday and Saturday morning. Also don’t miss the instrument petting zoo on the east end of the Fisher Green.

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Dance performances: Starting with a square dance aimed at young kids ages 6–12, and moving on to Bollywood and French country dances, the Armory Stage has fun participatory dances on Friday that kids will enjoy. (The Exhibition Hall will also feature lots of young performers throughout the morning.) Armory Stage, square dancing, 11 a.m.; Bollywood, 1 p.m.; French country dances 2 p.m.

High School Swing Dance: Some of the best youth bands around, including the award-winning Garfield High School Jazz Band and the Eckstein Middle School Sr. Jazz Band, play swing music, and give lessons and demos. Armory Stage, 3:45–6 p.m.

The Onlies: This terrific, up-and-coming group of 14-year-old musicians — who played the Moore Theatre earlier this month — perform everything from traditional Irish to original folk tunes, and will inspire young musicians with their fast-paced fiddle, banjo, mandolin and guitar work. Northwest Court Rooms, 7:20 p.m.

Bollywood Show: A great one for older kids: Six different groups, including students, bring the rhythms and colors of India alive. This was very popular in 2012; get there early. The International Dance Stage at the Exhibition Hall, 7–8:30 p.m.

sidewalk-chalkTo help kick start your summer playtime, we're giving away two packages of Crayola sidewalk  chalk, with 12 pieces of chalk in bold, bright colors.

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The only problem with zoo babies is that, relatively speaking, they're not babies for very long. I was reminded of that when I brought my preschooler to the Woodland Park Zoo last week to see the new Bamboo Forest Reserve exhibit and the lion cubs. Except, we couldn't find cubs in the lion exhibit. Instead, we marveled at the still-magnificent, but-not-quite-as-cute-as-we-expected adolescent lions, born in November. (They are considered grown at two years.)

To keep you from making the same mistake, and because we're in the middle of a zoo baby boom, and because these photos are just really, really cute, here's a round-up of local zoo babies on view right now.

Point Defiance Aquarium & Zoo: Tiger cubs and meerkats

It's cub central at Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium.

Kali, the newest member of the endangered Sumatran tiger family, turned one month on May 17 (check out that pin-up-like photo of her below). She has grown from a birth weight of about 2.5 pounds to more than 10 pounds in just four weeks. Zoo visitors can watch Kali’s feedings and keeper interactions with her in the Cub Den during zoo hours (daily at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. right now).

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touchatruck_logo-croppedToday, we're giving away a family pass to the Touch a Truck event in Monroe on Saturday, June 1, which includes admission for eight people to all the event's attractions: trucks, face painting, balloon animals, crafts, live music, pictures with Blitz the Seahawk, and more.

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