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Go Outside and Play: Growing a 'Playborhood'

From Play Streets to out-of-the-box backyards, getting back to play is right next door

Published on: June 30, 2017

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Conley Law-Rudge, 7, gets shot by squirt guns during a Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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Two boys play at a recent play street event in Seattle. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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Conley Law-Rudge (left) and Oliver Schlichting (right), both 7, shoot squirt guns at each other during a Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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Neighbors blocked traffic on this north Seattle street so kids could play in the street, as part of the City of Seattle's Play Streets program. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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Mike Buelterman adjusts the helmet for his son, Hugo, 4. On the left is Ruairi Brennan, 4, on his bike. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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Ruairi Brennan, 4, rides his bike in the street. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel
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A Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: Seattle Department of Transportation
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A Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: Seattle Department of Transportation
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A Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: Seattle Department of Transportation
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On a recent summery spring evening, I was at a Seattle park with a friend, watching our 6- and 7-year-old boys bounce around a playground and talking about the way we used to play as kids. Lisa, a second-generation Korean-American, had spent much of her suburban Connecticut childhood playing with friends in the woods and climbing trees — as high as possible. “Like that,” she said, pointing to a nearby tree — 50 feet or so tall, spiked with branches up to the top.

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“My mother didn’t have a clue,” she added.

Child’s play has changed. Kids play outdoors less (up to half as much as their parents, according to several studies), roam less and are watched more. Child obesity is up, physical activity is down. Meanwhile, research piles up about the benefits of unstructured outdoor play — from physical strength and motor skills to improved executive function and emotional regulation to a lifelong connection with nature.

The decline of outdoor play isn’t news. We talk about it, and books have been written about it (the seminal text is Richard Louv’s 2005 Last Child in the Woods). And many of us Northwest parents are on it: We proudly hike and bike and camp, watching kids play for hours in the woods. But when we go old-school at home and kick our kids outside, they drift back in, complaining that there’s no one to play with and nothing to do. (And of course, many of us don’t have a place to kick our kids outside to.)

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A girl plays during a Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: Seattle Department of Transportation

So, what’s a nature-loving, time-limited Puget Sound–area parent to do?

Mike Lanza has an explanation and an answer. The Silicon Valley dad of three and author of Playborhood: Turn Your Neighborhood Into a Place for Play, a practical handbook for reactivating neighborhood-based play, acknowledges the many factors that have contributed to the decline of kid-generated outdoor play: busy schedules, two-career families, safety fears. But he also spotlights a reason that’s less talked about: competition.

Playborhood“Decades ago, free play in neighborhoods was practically the only option for children looking for something to do. Today, though, children have the internet, lifelike video games, hundreds of television channels, dozens of structured activities and relentless marketing messages that draw them into malls and stores.”

And because kids (not surprisingly) want to play with other kids, it’s a downward spiral.

Neighborhoods, Lanza says, have got to get their game back.

“The big task,” he says, “is to make that neighborhood into a comfortable, warm, inviting place where parents can feel comfortable stepping back.”

Not all neighborhoods are equal, of course. Some are “playborhoods” by design, with sidewalks, front porches, quiet streets. Others have busy traffic, no sidewalks, crime. The good news: A grass-roots movement of city planners and play activists, as well as community-minded parents, are identifying steps that almost any neighborhood can take to promote connections and safe play. And summer, when outdoor fun is at its peak, is a great time to pilot a new play project.

1. Shut down the street

“Wheeee!” At 5:30 p.m. on a Friday, a crew of six kids, mounted on a motley collection of scooters, balance bikes, trikes and two-wheelers, takes turns flying down a short, gently sloped driveway and across the street.

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It’s Play Streets night in this North Seattle neighborhood of close-in wood and brick houses. From about 5 to 8 p.m., a stretch of two usually busy blocks just off N. 85th Street, often used by cars as a shortcut to Green Lake, is shut down to vehicle traffic — marked by trash cans at one end and a barricade at the other.

In other words, for one night a week, a 2-year-old and his red balance bike can rule the road right there in front of his house, while his parents do something almost as rare: hang out.

“Most of the time, we’re standing around chatting, which is nice because we never get to do that,” says Wendy Law, a biomedical research administrator and mom of two who started this Play Street last fall. She had heard about the 3-year-old municipal program, which allows city residents to apply for a permit to shut down a non-arterial block for several hours as often as three times a week. After Law discussed it with neighbors at a neighborhood summer block party, the residents decided to try it.

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Different neighbors take turns putting out and monitoring street barricades, an important role for a successful Play Street. On a warm evening, as many as 20 kids may be out riding bikes, playing soccer, drawing with chalk and playing games.

Law says that the weekly tradition is stitching closer bonds on a street where casual interactions can be infrequent, partly because of schedules and partly because of street design (traffic is busy, and front yards are small and not play-friendly).

 

Building neighborhood cohesion and, by proxy, safety, were among the goals of the city’s Play Streets initiative, which started as a Seattle Department of Transportation (SDOT) pilot project in 2014. “It’s important to have open spaces where we can play and get to know each other,” says Brian Henry, SDOT program development supervisor. And it’s equitable. “Play Streets is a great example because it can happen in nearly every neighborhood.”

The program is growing; 350 streets have applied for permits since it began. You can even apply for a Play Street permit for a street that you don’t live on; plus, it’s free to apply. (Find out how to apply here.)

Play Streets aren’t always successful, of course. Neighbors might not be on board, or it might not attract enough participants; on Law’s street they’ve dealt with irate drivers trying to pass through. But it is an example of a regular community ritual that can create informal play connections.

If your city doesn’t have an official program for closing streets to traffic (or you find Play Streets doesn’t work for you), set aside a regular time to gather in a yard or park. Summer is an ideal time to start a “Friday play day” that might extend through the school year.

An annual ritual can also pay off. Some Puget Sound neighborhoods band together for an annual progressive dinner, multi-family volleyball tournament or even a pig roast.

2. Be out there ... to bring the neighborhood in

Teddy McGlynn-Wright, who lives in Seattle’s Leschi neighborhood with his family, has a 4-year-old daughter, Charlie, who likes doing something that’s not done much anymore: popping in on neighbors.

The family — Teddy, wife Annie (a doctoral student in sociology), Charlie and toddler Theo — will be on a nightly walk, when Charlie will want to say hello. “It’s kind of uncomfortable,” says McGlynn-Wright with a laugh. “She’ll knock on neighbors’ doors, even though she is not usually an extrovert.” Sometimes, there’s no response. But other times, a kid comes out to play.

For McGlynn-Wright, who works in Seattle’s Office for Civil Rights and was an early supporter of Tiny Trees outdoor preschool, these small steps are important to build connections in their neighborhood. “It has so many hills … you’re really close to neighbors, but it feels like you’re really far away,” he says.

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This epic water feature in Mike Lanza's yard draws neighborhood kids in. Photo courtesy of Mike Lanza, playborhood.com

In Playborhood, Lanza lists dozens of other ways that families can “be out there.” A biggie is to make the front yard, not the back, your hangout area. Adding fun features to the front yard, planting a garden in the parking strip and installing benches so people can sit all contribute to a neighborhood culture of spontaneous play.

Families that live in apartments might have a courtyard that can double as a play area. Linnea Westerlind, author of Discovering Seattle Parks, says that alleys behind many busy urban streets can become the “new cul-de-sac.” Some housing developments, such as Snoqualmie Ridge or Tehaleh in Bonney Lake, actively incorporate (and market) elements of play-friendly design, including sidewalks, trails, playgrounds and regular events.

It can take time. Robin Bailey, a mom of four who lives in an Olympia neighborhood with few young families, has done many of the things Lanza suggests. But the response has been slow. “It’s a long game, not a short game,” she says.

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Watching that barriers remain up is an important part of any play street. Photo credit: JiaYing Grygiel

3. Think outside the cardboard box: creative backyard fun

Visitors to Woodland Park Cooperative School in Seattle’s Fremont neighborhood can be forgiven for confusing its outdoor play space with a junkyard. The small, hilly space, which adjoins Fremont Baptist Church, is strewn with ladders, tires, pallets, logs, plastic pipes and even an upside-down shopping cart. Natural materials also abound: tree trunk rounds, stumps, logs, garden boxes and a two-level sandbox with a pump at the top.

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Walking on pallets at Woodland Park Cooperative School. Photo courtesy of Teacher Tom's blog

On a cloudy Thursday afternoon, a group of 3- and 4-year-olds joyously play with all of it. One kid operates the pump, while another carefully walks across a log beam. One child hammers nails into scrap wood at the workbench while two others swing in unison on a metal swing set. The most fun is watching two small girls in pink dresses climb up a concrete slab built into the side of the yard, using a rope ladder to give them traction.

What is this magic? It’s loose parts: a staple concept of early childhood education that simply refers to materials without a clear use that prompt open-ended creative play (think of the proverbial cardboard box). Also, it’s risk. The Woodland Park co-op’s loose parts tend to be bigger and more multi-use than those at many preschools — kids can climb, move and build with these parts. In essence, it’s a mini adventure playground (see p. 14). Or, as lead preschool teacher Tom Hobson describes it, it’s a re-creation of “the natural free play environment of the city: the vacant lot.”

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Hobson — better known as “Teacher Tom” — writes a blog about the preschool that’s gained fame in early childhood education circles (he’s also just published a book, Teacher Tom’s First Book). He believes that kids are looking for risk, and if they don’t find it physically, they’ll create it in other ways.

“They tend to play so peacefully together in a place like this,” he says. “There are so many challenges other than getting into conflicts with each other.”

Places to tinker, connect and challenge themselves are important for kids, says Lanza of Playborhood.

Trampolines and other big investments have their roles as kid magnets, but the Woodland Park outdoor space offers a compelling example of how loose parts can also work in a yard. “Anybody can do this,” Hobson says. Families can adapt the principles according to kids’ ages. Natural loose parts, such as sand, water, stumps, logs and edible plants, create variety and adventure. Loose cardboard boxes and crates add building materials. Scrap wood and tools (with training) spark fort building. A pile of dirt with spades engages kids long past preschool age. (See Mike Lanza’s book Playborhood for an example of an epic front yard that combines loose parts with a trampoline, two-story fort, “stream,” and more.)

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Kids hula-hoop during a Seattle Play Street event. Photo credit: Seattle Department of Transportation

4. Slow down and step back

Angela Hanscom, pediatric occupational therapist, author of Balanced and Barefoot, and founder of TimberNook nature programs, writes about not rushing kids into play. “It sometimes takes a good 45 minutes before children get into ‘deep play,’” she writes. “This is the sort of play where children start creating their own games and their own rules.”

Slowing down doesn’t take special technology, but it’s a mind-set that doesn’t seem to fit modern culture. (My specialty is rushing through a hike.) But taking extra time is a good fit for summer and for neighborhood play.

Ever heard the phrase “hummingbird parenting”? It means being around but zooming in only when really needed — for instance, freeing ourselves to work on our badminton game as the kids make up a new version of “kick the can.” And it’s what I’ll be doing this summer.

9 ways to prompt outdoor play

  1. Join or start a community group. Buy Nothing groups, neighborhood Facebook groups, local babysitting co-ops, community gardens, meet-up groups like Hike It Baby — these are all purposeful ways to make connections with local families.
  2. Live out front. Invest in your front yard (or apartment courtyard) as a place for play and hanging out. Or take down backyard fences.
  3. Let the loose parts flow. Collect (safe) reclaimed material for kids to build with, from cardboard boxes to sticks and logs.
  4. Invest in one big thing. If you have space, invest in a play feature that will keep kids busy for years, from a safe trampoline to a multi-kid swing (see HearthSong for cool examples) to a pingpong table. Find more reader-tested ideas for outdoor toys here.
  5. Make a patch of nearby nature yours. Destination hikes are great, but a small patch of green space with plenty of loose parts (sticks, water, stones) is better for everyday play.
  6. Schedule unscheduled time. If you can’t do a Play Street, set up a weekly park date dedicated to a solid block of free play.
  7. Teach pick-up games: Lenore Skenazy, author of Free-Range Kids, refers to games as the “language of childhood.”
  8. Go camping: Camping gives kids (and parents) a swath of unplugged outdoor play that can carry over to everyday life. Find tips on top last-minute campsites here and here.
  9. Find camps or child care where outdoor play is the norm. Day camps and preschools such as Woodland Park Cooperative School, Wilderness Awareness School and Tiny Trees dedicate all or much of the day to outdoor play. Find a list of outdoor preschools here.

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