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How to Stop Fighting and Start Winning Together in Parenting and Marriage

ParentMap Live Replay

It’s no secret that a happy relationship is essential to the wellbeing of the whole family. Cultivating a healthy marriage can seem daunting for many, especially when you are in the throes of raising children. It may be easy to simply assume that things are “just fine” or normal, putting the needs of kids, work and home before your relationship.

Grab your partner and watch the replay of this virtual ParentMap Live talk to learn techniques that will restructure your marriage around shared success. Leave inspired, asking, “What’s best for us?” instead of “What’s best for me?”

Back by popular demand, authors Nate Klemp, Ph.D., and Kaley Klemp impart several key insights and tools of their 80/80 marriage model, which prescribes a move away from a mindset of being 50/50-fair to one based on the concept and practice of radical generosity. This approach runs interference with our “always on” work culture and refocuses attention on shared values, leading to a happier and more intimate marriage.

Get ready to win — as a team.

About the speakers

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Nate Klemp, Ph.D.

Nate Klemp, Ph.D., is a writer, philosopher and entrepreneur. He and wife Kaley Klemp are the co-authors of the recently published book “The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage” (Penguin Random House). He is also the co-author, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times bestseller “Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing,” and he is a regular contributor to Inc. Magazine, Fast Company and Mindful. He is a founding partner at Mindful, one of the world’s largest mindfulness media and training companies. Klemp holds a B.A. and an M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a doctorate from Princeton University.

Kaley Klemp

Kaley Klemp is co-author of “The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage.” She is also one of the nation’s leading experts on small-group dynamics and leadership development, a TEDx speaker and the author of three other books, including the Amazon bestseller “The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership,” “The Drama-Free Office” and “13 Guidelines for Effective Teams.” Klemp is a graduate of Stanford University, where she earned a B.A. in International Relations and an M.A. in Sociology, with a focus on Organizational Behavior.

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