Brock Eide, M.D., says that children can't wait for all the research to
be conclusive on learning and the brain before they get help. Eide, a
primary care doctor and his wife, neurologist Fernette Eide, M.D., have
lived the frustration of seeing their own child struggle with
Armed with an arsenal of knowledge and experience, the couple has
written a book that translates brain discoveries into specific
recommendations for tailoring learning to an individual child. In The Mislabeled Child: How Understanding Your Child's Unique Learning Style Can Open the Door to Success
(Hyperion), the Edmonds couple explain what they call "neurolearning."
It is their word for finding ways to leverage a child's brain strengths
against his or her weaknesses.
Eides, who run a clinic in Edmonds for evaluating children, have seen
tremendous success with some of their patients. Both have been frequent
lecturers nationwide to groups of teachers, parents, occupational
therapists and speech pathologists.
Education tends to simplify and generalize -- resulting in regular
education or special education, rather than 100 different "eds" to fit
each child's brain strengths, Brock Eide says. "Truly, every child
needs special education," he explains. "Huge numbers of children could
do better, but they are just getting by in standard education." Many
children fall just outside the definitions of disability that would
qualify them for help in school, he says, adding that it falls to their
parents to try to compensate and offer support.
Published this fall, The Mislabeled Child
demystifies some of the architecture of learning. The authors hope it
will help enable parents and teachers to problem-solve and modify
academic tasks to fit their students' abilities.
Memory, the topic of the book's third chapter, lies at the bedrock of
many learning disabilities. In one example, the authors quote evidence
that a large percentage of kindergartners can only hold about nine
words in what's called "working memory" at one time. If a teacher says
a sentence made up of 14 words, a child may forget the beginning by the
time she reaches the end. She won't understand what the teacher has
said. As a result, the teacher might consider this child unable to
focus at school, or she may even be labeled as having an "attention
What the Eides would say is that this child might have a small working
memory and should probably do exercises to increase its size, as well
as have her teacher provide instructions in smaller chunks.
Mislabeling that child can poison her self-esteem, and influence how
she sees herself in a hundred tiny ways. "I'm not good at school," she
While Fernette Eide says that subtle shift in labeling might be
considered minor, it can have a major impact on the way the child makes
choices as she grows up.
Writing is another area where memory figures heavily and where some
children begin to shut down in the classroom. Writing requires a
complex dance of finger control, language and memory, executed in a
precise sequence for fluency.
In their chapter on writing, the Eides help the reader try to tease out
where the bumps are in the long road from imagined words to written
sentences. Problems with fingers are motor problems. Problems with
holding ideas in memory can be one of a whole palette of memory
problems. Even visual weaknesses can masquerade as writing problems.
Recent research has shown that the brain is elastic: If one area is
injured or works slowly, another area can often strengthen to overcome
that. The Eides see that compensation ability as a major part of their
own working philosophy. One side effect, according to Fernette, is that
the Eides are now "more understanding of each other."
Fernette jokes that she is a "forgetful learner," who interrupts Brock
frequently because she can't keep his multi-layered sentences in her
working memory long enough to let him finish. Brock says he doesn't
have Fernette's strength at skimming and speed-reading, which allows
her to plow through hundreds of pages in an evening. "I have to hear
every word in my head as I read," he says.
Other couples might marvel at the partnering abilities of this pair,
who co-wrote a nearly 500-page book while home-schooling their two
children, now ages 11 and 9. Not to mention running their clinic
together for the past five years.
Do they talk about the brain while sorting laundry?
"Well," says Fernette, looking at Brock and smiling. "That would not be
far from the truth of our household."
Sally James is a Seattle parent who writes frequently about medicine and science. Her Web site is www.nasw.org/users/sjames.
children's learning difficulties are caused by highly specific problems
affecting only one or a very few aspects of memory and information
processing; yet these narrowly focused problems often coexist with
intact memory skills that can be used for compensation. The tremendous
diversity of memory routes means that there is often more than one way
that a child can remember a given piece of information - like alternate
roads she can use to get to her destination if her favorite route is
Excerpted from The Mislabeled Child by Brock Eide, M.D, M.A., and Fernette Eide, M.D. Copyright © 2006. Published by Hyperion.